*IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT*
Okay, so I’ve been keeping this pretty quiet lately but honestly I’ve been working on this secret X project for nearly a year now!
It has evolved and changed a great deal and I never felt it was completely “right” until recently!
You know that no system is “perfect” and I don’t mean to say mine is anywhere near perfect.. there are always room for improvements.
There were a few things about the old ERS system that I felt were getting a bit outdated and not nearly as effective anymore.
MOSTLY the ongoing section on the site and forum. I felt it could be MUCH MUCH improved.
So I have asked you what you wanted, you’ve told me and I’ve listened and seriously planned to do something about all of your suggestions.
I know that some of you are desperately needing something way more awesome than is currently out there, and I felt that it was about time for a new level of awesomeness around here.
So….
Here it is…
What you’ve been waiting for…
*drum roll*
I present a new membership site – The Naked Truth Club – the new premium membership site that is a new level of awesomeness!
Okay, so what does this membership have that the old one didn’t?
Here’s what TNTC (The Naked Truth Club) is about:
The Naked Truth Club is split into 2 very different sections:
- The Naked Truth About Men and
- The Naked Truth About Women.
I’ve split it up because quite frankly, general advice doesn’t cut it around here and if you want the best help online, you need SPECIFIC advice for you and your situation.
- PLUS -
As you know, the last time I checked men are very different to women and the kind of advice I have for men doesn’t necessarily translate to women and vice versa!
So if you’re a MAN, here’s a membership site that is SPECIFICALLY for you.
The Naked Truth About Women
You’ll receive:
It’s all advice for men, advice about women: understanding women, attracting women, keeping women, and just about everything to do with women that you’ll ever need to want to know!
- You’ll get a very NAKED view on women, how women think/feel, why they do those weird things
- How to attract women, what attracts women, what makes women happy in a relationship
- How to KEEP a woman. If you’re sick of chasing women away, this is the answer for you. You’ll know exactly how to do it and finally have the woman you want (who won’t run away!).
And if you’re a WOMAN, you’re not left in the dirt either, this site is also specifically for you!
The Naked Truth About Men
You’ll receive:
- A very NAKED view of what men think, feel and why they do what they do! (This is stuff most men will never reveal about themself! Now you’ll get it right here!)
- A step-by-step guide on how to attract and keep all sorts of different men out there (there’s many types), which we’ll cover in-depth.
- How to KEEP a man in a relationship, get him to commit to you and have the kind of relationship you’ve always dreamed of!
Of course that’s not all!
PLUS THERE’S MORE!
Within The Naked Truth Club, you’ll receive basic fundamental stuff AND the more “advanced” techniques and tactics on seduction, attraction and keeping a successful relationship!
You’ll also access the hottest upcoming experts who are actually keep up with the times (not those old gurus who have advice from the 50s).
Goes Perfectly With The Ex Recovery System
There’s a lot more that I won’t be able to fit in here, but if you’re on your journey through The Ex Recovery System and getting your ex back, TNTC is MADE for that specifically too!
Within TNTC there is a new feature called Masterclasses.
Masterclasses
The 12 Week of From Break up to Break Through Coaching will now come under Masterclasses and it will also be going through a major update! If you’re currently going through it, then you’ll want to pay close attention to this section as well!
- PLUS -
Community
Needless to say an awesome COMMUNITY of other “naked” members just like yourself to bond and share great “naked” moments with (hehe).
Basically that just means you’ll be able to get great help, support and encouragement from fellow naked members too along with your journey!
As you can see, I have a lot in store for you, so try not to get overwhelmed.
Now, you may be bursting in your pants to find out how to actually JOIN and ACCESS this wonderful membership site!
Click the link below, depending on which membership you’d like to join:
For Women: Join The Naked Truth About Men
For Men: Join The Naked Truth About Women
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hi ashley iv not been this for a long time but i was wondering if u can make me a video on how to ask a girl out and what the best way to do that (becouse im abit shy) if u can please
from anthony D
im not sure on how to use this site and my ex girlfriend wont talk to me i just want her back!!
Hi Ashley…I purchased the ERS and I’ve read the whole book…and I’m working in the journal…but I can’t access the daily classes you text message me about…please help…I desperately want to learn what to do. I feel hopeless. Thank you…I am forever grateful…
an email about your concern is sent to you thanks
I will like to get some feed back on my story. I met my ex through my cousin. At first I didn’t seem interested because he just wasn’t my type of guy. The four of us (my cousin, her boyfriend, me, and my ex) hung out but it didnt seem that interested in me either, so I didn’t pay any mind to him. Like three days later, my cousin gives me a call and says that he’s interested in me. We talked on the phone for a week and that weekend I went to see him. He had an amazing time together and this went on for about seven months. Just seeing each other on the weekends. Oh! I almost forgot to mention this is a long distance relationship. I live in Jersey he lives in NY. So during the summer I let him stay over my house because he wanted to spend more time together. And that’s why our true colors came out. Even though we had our differences he still stayed by my side. I believe the biggest mistake was telling him i loved him first. but he said it right back. We build this great relationship even though we’re the COMPLETE opposites. Our main problems were, he would always mention that I didnt express my feelings towards him and that I didnt show affection like if i didnt care at all. We communicated with each other PERFECTLY. but when it came to conversating about love. We would get shy. We were soo happy with each other that we even thought about having a baby together. So after my birthday once the summer was over he went back home because i was starting college. and he broke up with me. He said that I was going to find someone in college that was way better than him. I told him that wasn’t true that i loved him and i wouldnt do that to him. As months passed our fights became more intense. We hangout but he says he wants to be friends. Even though he acts like im still his. So i just two days ago i told him i had someone.. and i was accepted the fact that we should be friends. He was all lovey dovey with me that he all of the sudden hated me. and told me that he never wanted to see me again and that he wanted to fuck up my boyfriend.. he asked me if my boyfriend was better looking than he was and if his sex was better.. i said i havent had sex with him. During that night he would touch me hug me .. touch my hair but at the same time mention his”girl” and other girls that hes talking too.. which really hurts me but i refuse to show my emotions even though he knows it bothers me. I love him to death and i want him back.. and im pretty sure he loves and cares for me as well. but i dont know if we are meant to be
Hi,
I am having a lot of trouble with the program. Everything started out really nice and I was thrilled. I viewed all the videos on the ERS, then I got TNTC and it has been all downhill. I have not been able to start my journal, I can’t even send a message because at the of the message there is a code that I don’t seem to get. I need somebody to contact me and help me start my journal, join forums and take full advantage of the program. It seems like a really good program, but I need major help. Thanks, Rita
I’m not sure what that code is you’re referring to, but someone should be in touch with you to sort this out with you.
Rita, I’ll send you an email which I think can help you with it.
Ashley, (I know this is lengthy but I need your help!!)
My bf of 4 1/2 years broke up with me 9 days ago. He seemed depressed for a couple of days before the break up and wouldnt talk to me about it. He said he didnt want to talk about what was wrong and told me not to push the subject. I thought it might be something at work because its not like him to not want to discuss our problems. So I let it go the first day but the next day I insisted he tell me what was wrong and why he seemed so depressed. He said “youre going to push this aren’t you” and I said yes I was worried about him and it hurt that he wouldn’t talk to me. He just held his head down and looked up at me and I could see the lack of love on his face. I said “are you wanting to leave” and he said “yes its over”. He said he was done and never coming back and I should leave him alone and move on. Said he wasn’t happy, that he felt like he could not please me, he was living in my world and everything was about me, felt like I didn’t love or give him enough attention, etc.etc. He just let it all out when he left. Basically like, “I’m going to let her know just what I think of her since I’m done and never coming back.” and that’s exactly what he said. He said he was tired of trying and chose to give up. We’ve had a lot of stress from family and work the past few months but I thought we were strong enough to pull through. I never realized he was that unhappy. I had trust issues with him from a previous affair with a coworker and during arguments that would come up as hard as I tried to let it go. He said he couldn’t believe I was going to marry someone I did not trust. He said he just didnt think I would ever trust him again and he couldn’t keep trying.
He left so abruptly my first reaction was there’s someone else, which he denied. I found him at his dads later that day hoping he had calmed down and changed his mind but he stood firm and said it was over. I text him once the next day and told him I missed him and hoped he would change his mind but no response. He came two days later while I was at work and packed up everything that was his. I had left him a note telling him that I loved him and hoped he would give me a second chance and that I did trust him, etc. I waited a few days and left him alone then I called him and he answered. We had a short conversation that was friendly but he basically said he didnt know how he felt about talking to me and ended the conversation with ” why dont I CALL YOU and check on the dogs and i said ok and that was it. A few more days went by and his mother urged me to text him about going to a therapist we use to see to talk things out. Against my gut, I sent the text and he replied with “I dont need to see anyone. I am happy where Im at and who Im with. We are completely over. You would do good to move on with your life.”
So again, I left him alone until I ran into a mutual guy friend yesterday that told me he had seen my ex bf with another girl and mentioned the fact that a week ago (the very night he left me) he had went out with this girl and she got drunk and he had to take care of her. He introduced our friend to her and Im assuming they are in a relationship now and very well could have been cheating on me with her. I felt like such a fool. I text him last night that had I known he already had someone else I would not have even text him and that I couldnt believe that I meant so little to him. Its like he couldnt leave me quick enough to get to her.
I still love him but now have mixed emotions-if he cheated should I even want him back?? Deep down I know I do want to be with him or I wouldnt be writing this. What do I do??
Hey Ashley,
I sent my seed letter to my ex bf yesterday and i already got a reply. I really don’t know how to respond to this:
hey,
I’m glad your swimming again. Feels weird but its like you feel normal again right after doing that? I’ve been playing guitar non-stop, i changed my guitar strings to elixir which is what staind uses actually. Its like i broke away and i feel normal again. i cant explain it. i stopped doing my usual habbits and routines and broke away from that by playing guitar, before work i walk to sevs to get coffee to switch things up, im out every night. idk its the little stuff that counts and also makes a big difference. its rele good hearing from you though. not going to lie i was pissed the way you treated me. you cut me off like what we had was nothing. I know we ended bad but that doesnt mean you forget the past marta…
Besides that have you been following my cards? About to break 75% of the goal : D fucking a-mazing!!! Iv been getting so much feedback about them its crazy. so thank you for helping me through that
o just to let you know today was an epic day at staples LOL dan was officially fired so life at staples will now be wonderful haha fucking awesome
well again it was good hearing from you : ) ill be on skype and aim everyday but usually not till 1 when i get home now.
I didn’t expect him to answer so fast and I know I’m not supposed to reveal much…
Also i have no idea to post a forum.
to post on the forums just click on the reply or type on the box below then click on reply
Hi Ashley, this is my 2nd month on this programme and on Tuesday money came out my bank account through paypal, now i cant access the from break up to break through 12 week coaching and some things in catagories like advanced modules, masterclass, men talk, q&a and dating advice are also unavailable now. Just clicked on renew subscription and bought it again but i still cant access them, is there anything i should of done? please help
That’s weird. I’m looking into this…
Thank you for sorting it out. Will i get a refund back for paying twice or will that go over for next month?
Im not having much luck with this site lol, on the From Break Up to Break Through Coaching Program, i was on to day 37, now its on day 5 and can’t excess the others days
hi Cheryl, fixed the error on your account and you should be on the right day for your coaching program.
email us at help@exrecoverysystem.com for assistance
Hi Gretchell, thank you so much for sorting it out
I met this lady and we both fell in love with each other. However she is married lives at home but she has not had sexual relations with her husband for years. They sleep in separate rooms. We have been seeing each other for a year and a half now. Just recently her son moved back home from college and is living at home no. he is 20 years old. She me to me the other day and said that her husband was begging her to try and make the marriage work. She old me she is going to try one more time to see if it will work. I know she deeply loves me. she keeps sending my texts when i ignore her and talks about places we have been. When I did the no contact rule she called me and asked how come i haven’t contacted her in two days. she got mad at me. I am confused. I dont think she went back because her husband asked her to I think she did it because her son is back home. Because she is always talking about going to the movies and spending time with her son. She never mentions her husband. When we talked about it before I asked if she was going to have sex with him and she said ew no. baby steps. I told her i loved her. for a while i was chasing her with i love yous and i need yous and sending cards etc. I got this program and i believe it is starting to work. I am beginning to use the push pull reverse method. She asked me to go away with her for the day. What can I do to bring her back to me and away from her husband who I know she doesnt love. she tells me she needs me too when i tell her once in a while. And when i tell her i love her she says she loves me too. I jsut think she is staying at home for her son’s sake and that when he finally moves out that she will tell her husband that its over. She told she loves her husband like a friend and she is in love with me. I’m confused any suggestions? Bob
Hi Ashley,
I love your program by the way. It has opened my eyes to a lot of things and I think more than with anyone in the past I have learned some unpleasant things about myself, patterns of insecurity, and mere irrational expectations from my partner. I’ve made the mistake of depending on the other person completely, instead of maintaining my own persona… spending time with other friends, and remembering that I’m still an individual. Some of these things I knew before jumping into my recent ex. We made it a goal that we would be individuals, but then I’m here again, stuck in this cycle. I feel very guilty about our relationship not working out, because of all the constant crap I constantly gave him, he never felt appreciated, I always wanted more than he could offer. He was so good to me, so in love with me, so honest, loyal and supportive. He stood by me for many months even when I acted insecure. He has assured me we could never get back together because I broke his heart. He said he did want to be with me, but he just didn’t feel engaged anymore and didn’t want to lead me on. This of course broke my heart. I still love him, and miss him. I’m not an emotional wreck anymore, and accept that things happen for a reason but I’d do anything to make him feel engaged with me again. We sometimes work together in the photography business and the last time I saw him he seriously acted like he didn’t even find me attractive. It hurt really bad because he used to always look at me with those adoring large blue eyes. I tried to keep my cool but I’m too emotionally weak. He is sorry that he’s hurt me this deep. He’s said “I’m sorry you’re experiencing what I’ve experience on and off for the past few months” – we were together for a year and a half. I want him back. I want to make things right, but how can I be sure that he will trust me again? how can I feel like he’s actually going to feel the way he used to? My biggest fear is seeing him moving on and find someone else, and forget about our love. He says he is certain we will be friends in the future but that we need space – which I’m giving him. I want to be more than just good friends… I don’t want to quit but I also don’t want to get my hopes up to then be heartbroken again.
Hello Ashley Kay i need your help please , i am Muslims and my ex girlfriend is Catholicism . we were ok wth that for almost 3 years and then suddnely change her minds and i tried my hard to get her back but she kept giving me a different reason .
THIS HER LAST
I’m so sorry ZEE. I really wish I never hurt you. You were always so amazing, you are amazing. I know how much u love me and I loved u too so much but I guess not enough. I unlike Deema(ur friends mom) can’t live with a man that is so different, I can’t not wear clothes I like, cover my hair, not speak with men, not drive, not teach my children Catholicism. These things are important to me. And also ur family, although u accept me I’m sure ur father and mother would not in their hearts be happy if we married. My mom for sure would not, I told her the other day that I’m not talking with u and she was confused and wanted to know why, I told her and she said He is such a nice boy but only as friend u can’t marry him. And to be honest there was a time when I was willing to run away with u but now I know I could never leave my mom my religion and be happy. Even in Vegas I started to feel unhappy because I did everything to make u happy, but I did not enjoy my trip. You hated my friends but u never even cared that I wanted to hang out with them for lunch or a day, u couldn’t give up ur happiness and go out with me and them just to make me happy. But I’m not mad, that is the past. I don’t know why I cried when I saw u, I guess its still hard for me, u are such a wonderful man, I know u will make ur wife happy. She will be soo lucky. But if u marry, I hope its not to just fit with duty or culture or make ur parents happy but to make u happy. Worry only about urself. And finally yes I guess I have fallen out of live with u especially since I now am starting to have feelings for someone else. I’m sorry really and I wasn’t lying when I said I want to be friends there are still things I’ve told u I could never share with anyone else, but right now I’m not ready. I’m sorry. Really I am. Well good luck and don’t be sad, everything will be ok. God BLESS YOU, I’ll call u next month. Happy Eid. If u need anything email or call me. Goodnight
should i just delete this account , no one would answer??
someone help please
You should try posting to the forums which you can find a link to on the top bar of the page. That is what’s meant by “community.” These commenting sections are more for specific questions about the article they’re under.
As far as your question, I’d have to say that it is a really big deal that you two want different things out of life and it is a dealbreaker. It’s good to be cool with each other’s religions but she feels yours expects her to change her life which is not what she wants for herself. And you shouldn’t want her to change for you.
i am trying to delete my old comment . can some one help me
which comment?
Ashley, I’m having a real issue here and I need your advice. I got a call from my ex today at 530am (when he goes to work) and he was telling me how hard this has been for him and he cant bear to see me with someone else, he still loves me, im still special to him and he wants to try again. I played it cool and everything but hours later he asked me who I went to the movies with the night before and when he found out I went with another guy he freaked out and said he takes back all he said and he cant believe Id hurt him like that and now he has to think about whether he wants to try again with me or not. I tried explaining this guy was just a friend and we agreed recently anyway that we would both move on but since then he seems to be a lot more concerned with what Im doing. We had broken up before and 2 months into the breakup I ended up sleeping with someone else, we got back together but he just never let that go. I was honest about it with him the entire time. Now that he knows some other guy is interested in me and we went to the movies he doesnt believe the guy is just a friend and hes convinced im going to sleep with this other guy and hurt him again so he says he’s not even sure he wants to talk anymore, nevermind work things out. Please what am I supposed to do in this situation? I purchased your program today because I hoped there would be some information on this situation but I cant find anything that actually says what to do if something like this happens. Plus I know its our unique situation. I havent contacted him since this happened earlier today and he hasnt contacted me. Last thing he said was he has to think about it. Please help me.
Well, sounds like he needs to grow up a bit. In all seriousness though, you need to give him some space to get over this. He was clearly fragile already when he talked to you, so to find out you were out with another guy, would have made him flip out again and to want protect himself. Thats why you need to just give him space to get over it, calm down a bit and think about what he really wants. Does he want you or doesn’t he? If he really wants you, then you being out with another guy shouldn’t be an issue in the long run. Most likely, even if you weren’t out with another guy and you did get back togehter, I don’t think it’d be long before he leaves again due to this insecurity issue he has.
Thank you. I’ve been giving him plenty of space. In fact the more space I give him, the more he wants to be with me. He just can’t seem to get over what happened in the past. I slept with someone when we were completely broken up for a couple of months and he got back together with me knowing about everything but still cannot let it go. I don’t know why. He says he wants to get over it so bad and just be with me and he loves me so much. He contacted me later the same day and apologized about everything, he was really sorry and just a wreck, crying and so confused about what to do. He says if he could just let go of what I did then we could work. I have no idea how to help him do that, I try whatever I can but it’s his choice to let it go, he just doesn’t understand how. I wish I knew what to do or what to say to help him get over it.
EVERYTHING WAS SO GOOD AND WE WERE TO HAPPY AND WE WERE ABOUT EVERYTHING ABOUT THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE CULTURE BUT THEN SHE JUST CHANGE EVERYTHING OUT OF HER HEAD . PLEASE HELP ME I NEED TO GET HER BACK . THIS HER LAST MESSAGE
I’m so sorry ZEE. I really wish I never hurt you. You were always so amazing, you are amazing. I know how much u love me and I loved u too so much but I guess not enough. I unlike Deema(ur friends mom) can’t live with a man that is so different, I can’t not wear clothes I like, cover my hair, not speak with men, not drive, not teach my children Catholicism. These things are important to me. And also ur family, although u accept me I’m sure ur father and mother would not in their hearts be happy if we married. My mom for sure would not, I told her the other day that I’m not talking with u and she was confused and wanted to know why, I told her and she said He is such a nice boy but only as friend u can’t marry him. And to be honest there was a time when I was willing to run away with u but now I know I could never leave my mom my religion and be happy. Even in Vegas I started to feel unhappy because I did everything to make u happy, but I did not enjoy my trip. You hated my friends but u never even cared that I wanted to hang out with them for lunch or a day, u couldn’t give up ur happiness and go out with me and them just to make me happy. But I’m not mad, that is the past. I don’t know why I cried when I saw u, I guess its still hard for me, u are such a wonderful man, I know u will make ur wife happy. She will be soo lucky. But if u marry, I hope its not to just fit with duty or culture or make ur parents happy but to make u happy. Worry only about urself. And finally yes I guess I have fallen out of live with u especially since I now am starting to have feelings for someone else. I’m sorry really and I wasn’t lying when I said I want to be friends there are still things I’ve told u I could never share with anyone else, but right now I’m not ready. I’m sorry. Really I am. Well good luck and don’t be sad, everything will be ok. God BLESS YOU, I’ll call u next month. Happy Eid. If u need anything email or call me. Goodnight
My ex says she has no feelings anymore and there is no attraction there. When I asked (I knw I shouldn’t of) if there was any chance in the futer being together, she sed she didn’t knw. Then she sed she need time/ space to see if she is making the right desistion. At one point she agreed to have an open relationship. I’m confused I’m starting the no contacted but she txts me I Dnt knw what to do. Can u help me here as she just gives me no answers and sometimes comes across hot cold I get no where
My promblem is I been with my x for 10 years we be married for 3 years. Just out of the blue she want a devorice she said I love u but not In love that hurt me bad I’m dpreess lost a lot of weight one day I went in her phone I see she in love with someone else how can this be bad enough we stay together she leafs go as she please I know what she doing Its more I just to hurt to talk about it this being going since feb should I give up
Find out the reason reason for the break up and work on the steps in ERS.
Hi! I wish to see the Weekly, day by day articles which I used to find in the former My Relationship Hub site. It’s one of the reasons why I visit the site. I have done the initial setups which the new system required of me.
You can find the link to this in your Dashboard (under masterclasses) or by going to the main Naked Truth site and looking under Masterclasses on the left hand side. You can also find the latest lessons under Action heading on the main page too.
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